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How parents can nourish their children’s faith

From day one, we parents strive to provide our children with the best upbringing by fostering their physical, emotional, and intellectual development. Equally important, but often overlooked, is developing their faith in God.

For Catholic parents, passing on a solid blend of faith and values is a must, especially in this modern, secular world. Yet this can tend to place low on our priority list. It is common for families to have full days of school, work, games, practices, and playdates. But despite the hectic pace of daily life, there are practical and meaningful ways to ensure that the spiritual growth of our children remains a priority.

Power of Prayer

Even small, consistent efforts significantly impact a child’s spiritual development. The most important is to pray together as a family because the family “is the domestic church” (Catechism of the Catholic Church 2685). The power of regular family prayer cannot be overstated. This does not need to be a long, drawn-out process.

I am often surprised at how many parents imagine family prayer as a somber, tedious chore of reciting long unfamiliar scripture that no one understands. We don’t need to overcomplicate it! Finding time to pray with our family can be as simple as saying grace before meals, calling upon the Holy Spirit for guidance before a big test or meeting, or saying a Hail Mary before bed.

Praying together instills a sense of family unity while reinforcing the importance of communication with God not only for ourselves but for others. And as children see parents actively engaging in prayer, they are more likely to develop those same prayer habits.

Living the faith

Find ways to integrate the Catholic faith into everyday family life. Designate a corner or room in your home as a sacred space for prayer and reflection. Decorate it with religious images, candles, and symbols to create a serene environment for spiritual contemplation. Encourage children to spend some quiet time there, fostering a connection with God. Just having this space as a holy reminder in the home subconsciously will reinforce the faith of your entire family whenever they see it.

We can also combine Catholic values into everyday life. For instance, fostering an environment of forgiveness in the family reflects the teachings of Jesus. Regularly receiving the Sacrament of Reconciliation can help us connect our faith to real-life experiences.
                                                                      Mass Attendance

Despite the challenges of hectic family schedules, making Mass attendance a priority is crucial for fostering a strong Catholic identity in children. Regular Mass attendance not only strengthens our relationship with God but allows our children to experience the beauty and reverence of the liturgy, helping them understand the significance of the Eucharist.

If your family is busy with weekend activities, find a local parish in that area with Mass times to make attendance more convenient. You can always find a Mass that will work with your schedule.

Scripture

Reading and reflecting on the Bible as a family is a powerful way to deepen your children’s understanding of Catholic teachings. Again, this doesn’t require reading complicated scripture that your children will not understand. Choose age-appropriate Bible stories from a children’s Bible or Catholic online platform. This can launch open conversations about how these stories relate to our lives and offer valuable life lessons.

Education

Utilize the resources and classes provided by your parish to engage children in faith formation. Enrolling them at a young age in your parish’s faith formation classes can enrich their understanding of the Catholic faith. Additionally, parents should take the initiative to educate themselves about Catholic teachings, history, and traditions to be able to answer questions and be strong role models in the Catholic faith.

Nourishing our children’s Catholic spiritual journey is achievable with small but intentional efforts. By incorporating prayer, regular Mass attendance, Scripture reading, and continuing education, we can give our family a strong foundation for their faith.

Embrace the joys and challenges of parenthood, knowing that by prioritizing our children’s spiritual growth, we are shaping their lives with enduring values and a deep connection to God.

—Valerie Parzyck is director of family faith formation and youth ministry at St. John Vianney Church in South Burlington.

—Originally published in the Fall 2023 issue of Vermont Catholic magazine.

 

Vermont Knights of Columbus provide ‘Coats for Kids’

The gift of warmth is underway as the Vermont Knights of Columbus participate in the “Coats For Kids” program.

The goal is to help distribute new wind- and water-resistant coats to children throughout the state.

The Vermont Knights of Columbus have delivered 84 cases of coats; each case contains 12 coats of various sizes and colors for boys and girls.

Many councils are leaving coats in various food shelves or at schools where there is most need. The St. Albans Council #297 Grand Knight Valdemar Garibay said, “Our mission is to help the community, and this is a great way to help as the weather starts to get colder; having a coat is important. We are here to help.”

Coats for Kids Chair Keith Mandart of Gibbons Council #2285 in Newport noted the Gospel mandate in Matthew 25 to perform Corporal Works of Mercy as the reason why that council is participating in the coat program.

It’s worth it to the take time to pass on faith

My Mom was my first catechism teacher. I’m not just talking about what she taught me at home – she was the real deal for about 15 of us for an hour every Thursday afternoon throughout the school year. Back when I was in her class (and here I date myself, because when this all began the Mass was still in Latin), we had something called “Release Time,” during which public school children were allowed to leave school early in order to go “off campus” for religious instruction.

She had gotten involved in all of this innocently enough. Father had asked for volunteers to walk us youngsters from the school to the church, which was about a tenth of a mile up the road. This involved rounding up stragglers, counting lots of heads, and discouraging snowballs in the winter.

It wasn’t long before that same pastor “hinted” that the sisters, who came to us from another town, could really use some help in the classroom. The next thing we all knew, my Mom was teaching first-grade catechism, and she was given the choir loft as her classroom.

Imagine for a moment, if you will, 15 fidgety six-year-olds seated in choir-loft pews, overlooking the rest of the church. If it occurred to you that every couple of minutes someone – maybe even a couple of someones – just had to pop off their seats to look down on the other classes, then you have an accurate picture of what it was like. I do remember that finally, Mom got all of us to stand in a row, peering over the edge, at which point she announced, “That was your last look. Now, sit down and let’s get on with our lesson.”

What we were learning that day was the Guardian Angel Prayer. We were all pretty wide-eyed when she told us that every single one of us had our own angel, right there next to us, and that our angel was with us all the time. She was so convincing that we all scrambled, moving over enough to give our angels a place to sit beside us. I think her own angel was smiling a bit and nodding in approval.

This was also at a time before Xerox machines and images you could download off the Internet, so my Mom didn’t have access to either of those conveniences. What she did have was artistic talent and loads of carbon paper. Each week, she would painstakingly draw pictures related to the upcoming lesson for us to color and take home, tracing her work on stacks and stacks of paper and carbon. I felt especially privileged because, when everything was copied, I got to color the original at home, long before my classmates saw it.

In retrospect, I think what I learned the most in my first-grade catechism class was that faith was something worth taking a lot of time and trouble to pass on.  To my Mom – thanks.

—Originally published in the Fall 2023 issue of Vermont Catholic magazine.

 

Movie review: ‘Napoleon’

Is “Napoleon” (Sony) dynamite? The answer might depend on whom you ask.

Viewers out for sweeping spectacle will likely come away from director Ridley Scott’s historical epic satisfied. But those seeking insight into the conquering French emperor’s personality will find there’s a hollow ring to star Joaquin Phoenix’s portrayal of him. Battlefield gore and steamy sex scenes, moreover, make the film’s demanding fare suitable only for the hardiest grown-ups.

As Napoleon’s military and political career advances, he falls for the young widow Josephine de Beauharnais (Vanessa Kirby). Screenwriter David Scarpa’s depiction of their relationship, however, is eccentric. Their dialogue carries undertones of a mutual, sadomasochistic desire for mastery while their physical interaction is better fitted to a barnyard than a marital chamber.

Napoleon, the script would have us believe, was a weirdly awkward character. Phoenix fumes and smolders but also delivers lines so out of place as to provoke laughter. The upshot is an unconvincing portrait, though the sequence devoted to his eventual divorce from Josephine – whom he still loved but who had failed to produce an heir – is poignant.

The climactic Battle of Waterloo is also handled impressively. But what precedes it, while sometimes visually striking, is flawed at a human level. Whether mature moviegoers ultimately reckon the artistic tally in the red or the black, they’ll have to be prepared for the numerous taxing elements included in this polished but often implausible retrospective.

The film contains much bloody violence, several gruesome sights, graphic scenes of marital lovemaking, an adultery theme, partial male nudity, obscene imitations of aberrant acts, at least one use of profanity, a couple of milder oaths and fleeting rough and crude language. The OSV News classification is L — limited adult audience, films whose problematic content many adults would find troubling. The Motion Picture Association rating is R — restricted. Under 17 requires accompanying parent or adult guardian.

—John Mulderig, OSV News

USCCB president calls for continued prayer in world where ‘peace seems so far away’

The president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops Nov. 14 urged his brother bishops and all the Catholic faithful to “continue to pray” when “peace seems so far away” in today’s world.

“Our thoughts readily turn to the Holy Land, sacred to all three monotheistic religions,” Archbishop Timothy P. Broglio of the U.S. Archdiocese of the Military Services said in his presidential address.

“We recognize and defend the right of Israel to exist and to enjoy a place among the nations. At the same time, we know that the Palestinians, who represent the majority of Christians in the Holy Land while still being a minority themselves, have a right to a land that is their own,” he said. “The Holy See has long advocated for that right and we also plead for them.”

Archbishop Broglio noted that organizations such as the Knights and Ladies of the Holy Sepulchre and the Catholic Near East Welfare Association “make concrete our commitment to those who suffer and involve Catholics in our nation in a personal way in the suffering of the Holy Land and among her neighbors.”

Those neighbors include Syria, which he said has been almost “forgotten in the deliberations of the powerful,” and Lebanon, which has long shouldered the burden of millions of refugees, he noted. The archbishop also highlighted the struggle of “our Ukrainian sisters and brothers” against “unjust aggression,” the oppression against the church in Nicaragua and the imprisonment of Bishop Rolando Álvarez there, the “delicate nature” of the Catholic Church’s situation in Myanmar and the ongoing crisis in Haiti.

“Unfortunately, it would be easy to continue with a list of areas of conflict in our world,” he said.

“Certainly, we pray that the Prince of Peace might enlighten those who determine the fate of nations,” he said. Archbishop Broglio reminded the bishops how they prayed for peace at their opening Mass Nov. 13, “and I know that we are ready to advocate for lasting peace.”

He praised the USCCB’s Committee on International Justice and Peace for working “tirelessly … to keep the bishops abreast of the developments in these situations and to encourage, within the limits of what is possible, avenues of dialogue and assistance.”

“As successors of the apostles, we participate in the mandate that Christ gave at the Ascension: ‘Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you,'” he said. “It continues to be a daunting task.”

The archbishop also talked about his time as a delegate to the first session of the Synod on Synodality Oct. 4-29 at the Vatican; the synod’s second session will be next October.

“Different cultures and different perceptions always enrich,” he said. “It is … important to listen to each other. Personally, I saw many old friends and met new ones. I was also painfully reminded of the needs of so many younger churches.”

He also noted that he sees collegiality and “many synodal realities” that exist now in the U.S. church through the deliberations of the USCCB’s various committees and how their members interact for the sake of the wider church and in the work of presbyteral and pastoral councils.

“That is not to say that we do not have to grow and open ourselves to new possibilities, but we recognize and build on what is already present,” he said. “We open our hearts to the action of the Holy Spirit and we listen to that voice.”

He spoke of the National Eucharistic Revival and the U.S. church’s effort “to call our daughters and sons home to the fullness of life in Christ in the sacraments,” and praised other initiatives with this as their goal, including the Fellowship of Catholic University Students, NET Ministries, Cursillo and so many others.

“On behalf of all the bishops, I thank those who strive to instill vibrancy, commitment and renewal into our faith communities while reaching out to the peripheries at the same time,” he said.

“On the front lines of these efforts are our committed priests on fire with the Gospel,” he said. “They are our first collaborators and we are so dependent on their tireless efforts.” The archbishop said he is encouraged by “young men preparing in the seminaries” for the priesthood, calling them “a sign of hope for the future.”

“We are unified in our commitment to Jesus Christ and his Gospel,” he told his brother bishops. “We may approach the mission in different ways, but we are convinced that our mandate is to bring everyone to an experience of Jesus Christ who leaves no one indifferent or the same.”

He said he hoped the bishops’ plenary assembly, with its full agenda and opportunities “for fraternal exchanges,” would “enrich each of us and send us home with renewed zeal for the mission we have in common.”

The USCCB president encouraged them to return “emboldened” by the zeal of St. Frances Xavier Cabrini, the first U.S. canonized saint known for her care of the poor, marginalized populations and immigrants, who “never really let anything stop her.” Archbishop Broglio concluded his address with a reference to the Book of Revelation, “Whoever has ears ought to hear what the Spirit says to the churches.”

—Julie Asher and Peter Jesserer Smith, OSV News

Polish museum on World War II veterans tortured, killed by communists is ‘place of prayer’

On Warsaw’s Rakowiecka Street, flanked by a smart new Metro station and office buildings, a gray cement wall runs mournfully along a damp surface of fallen leaves.

At midpoint in the wall, a narrow gateway opens out onto crumbling barrack buildings, still daubed with political graffiti between tightly barred windows.

When Mokotow prison was opened as the Museum of Cursed Soldiers and Political Prisoners of the Polish People’s Republic in March, six years after shedding its last inmates, it was agreed regular Masses and liturgies should be held to dispel the site’s dark, malevolent associations.

Today, dedicated to communist-era resistance fighters and political prisoners, the museum’s melancholy courtyards and corridors gain special poignancy during the commemorative month of November.

“Though this is a secular institution, it’s also a place of prayer,” explained Father Tomasz Trzaska, the museum’s chaplain.

“While Poles place candles each year on the graves of loved ones, we should remember many victims of past misrule have no known resting place. It’s especially those people we pray for in November, as work continues to uncover and identify their remains,” the priest said.

Opened in 1902 by Poland’s Russian occupiers, with room for 800 inmates, Mokotow prison was used during World War II by the Germans, who crammed in more than 2,500 and conducted mass shootings here.

When the war ended, the prison was commandeered by Poland’s new communist Security Ministry, whose officials also secretly eliminated hundreds of internees, in circumstances revealed only in the 1990s.

Prominent victims included Witold Pilecki (1901-1948), a hero of Poland’s underground Home Army, the as AK, who circulated vital reports from Auschwitz-Birkenau after infiltrating the Nazi death camp, and wartime Gen. August Emil Fieldorf, who was hanged here after spurning collaboration.

But the Catholic clergy suffered in the prison as well.

Bishop Antoni Baraniak (1904-1977) had his nails ripped out while refusing to testify against Poland’s primate, Cardinal Stefan Wyszynski, while Bishop Czeslaw Kaczmarek of Kielce (1895-1963) endured three years of torture before being sentenced for alleged espionage. Although both bishops lived to tell their stories, many clergy did not.

Among others, Father Rudolf Marszalek, a Nazi camp survivor, was hanged here in March 1948, while Father Zygmunt Kaczynski, a former government minister, was murdered at the prison in May 1953.

The decision to open Mokotow as a museum was made in 2016, on the eve of Poland’s Remembrance Day for Cursed Soldiers, now marked on March 1.

The many items displayed in its airless cells and isolation rooms include typewriters and recording devices used by the security police, as well as forlorn letters, leaflets and diaries confiscated from prisoners.

Although prison chaplains were grudgingly allowed in the later stages of communist rule, Bibles and prayer books were usually taken away, while in the harshest post-war Stalinist years, police agents posing as priests attempted to extract information during fake confessions.

Given the horrors perpetrated in the prison, Father Trzaska thinks religious ceremonies are important — especially for ex-inmates who sometimes show up with friends and relatives.

Lidia Ujazdowska, a Warsaw historian, agrees. Although other aspects of modern Polish history are well known, she said, awareness of communist-era repression remains limited.

For Ujazdowska, the floodlit icon of Poland’s fabled Black Madonna now hanging above the prison’s main stairwell, and the rosaries handed out to visitors, testify to an ongoing effort to expunge the prison’s pent-up atmosphere of dread. During Lent, the Way of the Cross is prayed inside the museum walls, remembering unimaginable suffering and torturing experienced by Polish wartime heroes.

“This museum should serve as a visible warning of humanity’s darker side,” Ujazdowska, who collects survivor testimonies, told OSV News.

“But the services and Masses now held here also signal the victory of goodness, bringing a peaceful aura to a place of suffering and death.”

The bullet-holed rear wall where courageous Capt. Pilecki and other prisoners were shot — before being thrown on a pony cart and dumped in unmarked graves — is now decorated with black memorial tablets and flowers in Poland’s red-white colors.

Across the prison, a subterranean corridor leads to the narrow execution chamber where Fieldorf and his comrades were hanged, while up above photos of Mokotow’s grinning executioners are displayed against red lighting.

Krzysztof Bukowski has special reasons for helping preserve the memory of Mokotow’s prisoners.

His father, Edmund Bukowski, a communications expert wounded with the wartime AK, was shot in the prison in April 1950, leaving him effectively orphaned when his mother also was jailed for 15 years.

In December 2012, his father’s remains were identified during exhumation work at a rubbish pit in Warsaw’s Powazki Cemetery.

“As one of the few surviving direct witnesses, I feel a duty to speak about my own sad connections, something I was barred from doing for much of my life,” Bukowski told OSV News.

“When I guide visitors, I feel I’m walking in the footsteps of those who suffered here, sleeping on bare floors and enduring interrogation without respite. It’s also good for me, as a Catholic, to know prayers are recited here for their eternal rest,” he said.

When a Mass “for those with no graves” was celebrated at the prison-turned-museum Nov. 4, accompanied by poetry and music recitals, it was well attended — a sign, Father Trzaska thinks — of the patriotic sentiment still deeply grounded in Polish national life.

“Even today, as many families still seek justice, it’s supremely important that this site of terror at our national capital’s heart has been regained as a place of contemplation,” Father Trzaska told OSV News.

The so-called Cursed Soldiers, often the highest-ranking officers of the underground resistance army of World War II, were doomed by the communist regime that spread false information that they were traitors of the state — all for the reason that the Polish patriots wanted Poland to be free from Soviet influence, which was the case since the end of the war until 1989.

Father Trzaska added that “there’s still a long way to go in coming to terms with this terrible past. But if we fail to honor people who suffered and died for Poland, we’ll be signing up to the narrative of those who once counted on them being forgotten.”

—Jonathan Luxmoore, OSV News